Narcissus is my twin brother

makin lama saya ngeliatin foto foto saya..
saya ngerasa makin cinta sama diri sendiri…hahahahahaha…
ya ya..it seems normal right, to love ourself..

tapi mengamati perilaku sendiri, yang makin lama kok makin "nggak banget" saya jadi penasaran aja..is it normal?

Narcissism, Narcism  is a defense mechanism, unhealthy self love that can grow into megalomanic fantasies with an extreme wish of being admired. Mostly shows up in the adolescence and causes a deficit in the ability of having compassion with other people.

the characteristics are;

Praise oneselve into the sky and feeling important
exaggerating own abilities to make other see how good her/him
always engaged with images of ideal realtionship, great succes, power and striking with beauty
convinced how unique and special he/she is
Convinced that only a very few understand him/her
Demands exaggerated admiration from the environment
Haughty attitude and acting..

and so on…

dan menurut wikipedia, istilah yang pertama kali dipakai oleh Sigmund Freud ini diambil dari figur mitos dari Yunani, Narcissus..Cowok ganteng yang dikutuk (karna) mencintai bayangan-nya sendiri yang terpantul dari kolam..Saking cintanya si Narcissus akhirnya di ubah menjadi bunga Narcissus..he3 more or less..

and far more added, its primary because the dysfunctional family, the issue of separation and individuation or childhood traumas and the development of the narcisstic personality…Things that barely never happened to me!

tapi jujur deh, habis browsing ini saya jadi takut sendiri..biarpun nggak punya sejarah mental, dan nggak ( semua ) tanda-tanda nya saya alami..saya jadi ngeri sendiri..

i have the tendencies, and might turns out to be one :p

love and things in between |